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ERTI PERSAHABATAN..

Erti persahabatan tak pernah lupus,meskipun nilai-nilainya pudar dibawa arus masa.. Dalam dunia ini, kita tidak punya sesiapa kecuali diri sendiri.. tetapi dalam kita bersendiri, kita beruntung kerana mempunyai seorang sahabat yang memahami kita. Sebagaimana kita mengharapkan keikhlasan dan kejujuran seorang sahabat,begitu juga dia.

Tetapi kita sering terlupa akan hal itu.

Kita cuma mengambil kira tentang harapan dan perasaan kita ... Kita rasa dikhianati bila dia tidak menepati janjinya. Kita tidak memberi dia peluang untuk menerang keadaannya. Bagi kita, itu alasannya untuk menutup kesilapan dan membela diri.Kita terlupa, kita juga pernah membiarkan dia ternanti-nanti.... kerana kita juga ada janji yang tidak ditepati. Kita beri beribu alasan, 'memaksa'dia menerima alasan kita.

Waktu itu, terfikirkah kita tentang perasaannya???

Seperti kita, dia juga tahu rasa kecewa....tetapi kita sering terlupa. Untungnya mempunyai seorang kawan yang sentiasa di sisi kita pada waktu kita memerlukan dia. Dia mendengar luahan perasaan kita, segala rasa kecewa dan ketakutan, harapan dan impian kita luahkan, dia memberi jalan sebagai laluan penyelesaianmasalah. Selalunya kita terlalu asyik bercerita tentang dirikita hingga kadang- kadang terlupa kawan kita juga ada cerita yang ingin dikongsi bersama kita.

Pernahkah kita memberi dia peluang untuk menceritakan tentang rasa bimbangnya, rasa takutnya?

Bolehkah kita menenangkan dia sebagaimana dia pernah menyabarkan kita?

Ikhlaskah kita mendengar tentang kejayaan dan berita gembiranya?

Mampukah kita menjadi sumber kekuatannya seperti mana dia meniup semangat setiap kali kita merasa kecewa dan menyerah kalah?

Dapatkah kita yakinkan dia bahawa kita boleh dipercayai, kita boleh dijadikan tempat untuk bersandar bila terasa lemah, agar tidak rebah?

Bolehkah kita menjadi bahu untuk dia sandarkan harapan?

Sesekali jadilah kawan yang mendengar dari yang hanya bercerita.Ambillah masa untuk memahami hati dan perasaankawan, kerana dia juga seorang manusia;dia juga ada rasa takut, ada rasa...bimbang, sedih dan kecewa. Dia juga ada kelemahan dan dia juga perlukan kawan sebagai kekuatan.Jadilah kita kawannya itu. Kita selalu melihat dia ketawa, tetapi mungkin sebenarnya dia tidak setabah yang kita sangka.

Disebalik senyumannya itu, mungkin banyak cerita sedih yang ingin diluahkan,disebalik kesenangannya,mungkin tersimpan seribu kekalutan,kita tidak tahu....... tetapi jika kita cuba jadisahabat seperti dia,mungkin kita akan tahu. Renungilah...... 

LUKA SERIBU RINDU...

“bukan mudah merawat hati yang luka. Kesannya tiada, namun sesekali denyutannya masih menyula rasa. Tuhan, berilah daku kekuatan untuk menghadapi segalanya. Hadirkanlah cinta untuk mengubati hati yang hampir bernanah ini…”

“cinta takkan pudar dek sebakan sejarah silam”

“hidup berlingkarkan bahagia jika bernaungkan kasih sayang
ceria akan terus menguntum seri mengiringi kemesraan”

“apabila cinta dibutakan, kita mudah hilang kewarasan
apabila perasaan didahulukan, kita senang hilang pertimbangan”

“apabila kata-kata diledakkan, jangan sampai melukakan perasaan
apabila sudah luka melukakan, di manakah nilai sesebuah ikatan?”

“apabila kemarahan tidak mampu dibatasi, kata-kata pasti memecahkan rasa
hati apabila terluka, kadangkala bukan mudah memberikan kemaafan”

“kadangkala duka biar menjadi milik diri
resah biar menjadi milik peribadi
ada yang sudi berkongsi, tidak kurang pula yang mencemuh nanti”

“kata hati memang payah diperdengarkan
kadangkala hanya terpamer daripada tindakan”

“apabila sudah terkilan rasa, impian lain pula yang terbina
apabila hati sudah tergores luka, dengan apa hendak dijadikan penawarnya?”

“kebahagiaan itu terletak pada jiwa
ketenangan itu kepunyaan hati
biar duka membuat kita sengsara, namun ingatan pada ALLAH jangan sambil lewa”

“kenangan adakalanya boleh menyeksa jiwa
ingatan juga kadangkala mendera rasa
kenapa yang sudah-sudah tidak dibiarkan berlalu begitu sahaja?”

“sekali dibiarkan terluka, selamanya hati akan merasa
walau diberi kemaafan sekalipun, luka tetap akan menyimpulkan sebuah duka
sembuhnya mungkin, namun parutnya ada”

“selanjur bercinta sewajarnya berumah tangga
sebelum terluka, jangan cuba membebankan rasa
pergilah cinta jika itu lebih bahagia”

“usah diturutkan rasa, kelak menanah luka di dada
usah mengikut runtunan kemarahan di hati, kelak kasih sayang akan mati”

“bukan kerana kemarau yang panjang kasih kita menjadi gersang
tetapi kerana kisah silam yang menjadi igauan”

“bila kasih beralih arah, perlakuan pun mulalah berubah
yang tercetus adalah kemarahan yang berpanjangan”

“hati yang terkilan, kerap mencetuskan pelbagai andaian
bila dilukakan, serasa diri tidak lagi diharapkan”

“siapakah yang bisa mengerti kecelaruan hati?
siapakah juga yang bisa memahami gelodak jiwa ini?
hanya diri sendirilah yang tahu mencernakannya tetapi tidak terdaya menghuraikannya dengan kata-kata”

“kenangan silam kadangkala mendarahkan luka
ingatan silam juga adakalanya menyakitkan rasa”

“kucarimu walau di mana
semoga akan berpanjangan kasih kita”

“jejak damai…di manakh harus kucari?
jejak kasih…barangkali sudah pun terhakis”

“yang kukuh masih lagi kasih dan sayang
yang teguh adalah perasaan dan harapan
yang luluh mungkin sebuah impian”

“berakhirlah penantian pada hujung bg waktu ini sahaja
tidak sanggup aku terus menanti begitu lama mengharapkan kau hadir semula”

“bahagiakah yang terlukis di hati? atau resah yang cuba ditabiri
kenangan dan ingatan kian seiringan membenihkan rindu menguntum rasa”

“cinta…janganlah bersemi
rindu…tetaplah menguntum seri
cinta ini bukan milikmu dan rindu ini pun juga bukan untukmu
di hati…sudah ada insan lain yang mengisi”

“kusisipkan cinta di hujung rasa, adakah ia ditakdirkan untukmu?
kuselit rindu di celah sukma, mungkinkah ia kepadamu?”

“apabila ingatan menjengah, rindu menjadi semakin parah”

“cukuplah sekadar di sini. aku tidak mahu luka menjadi semakin pedih bagaikan sengaja disimbah cuka”

“apakah benar hanya waktu sahaja yang boleh menyembuhkan luka?”

“adakalanya ujian dan dugaan boleh menguatkan semangat menentang arus kehidupan yang kadang waktunya memedihkan rasa”

“kasih sayang akan mengutuhkan ikatan
jiwa yang derita pun boleh dibahagiakan”

“kita diktakdirkan bersama, kerana itu Tuhan kembali menemukan kita…”

“segalanya indah apabila semuanya mengikut perancangan dan berjalan lancar sebagaimana yang kita harapkan”

“hanya dengan pengertian, kita boleh memupuk persefahaman”

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TeN tIpS FoR a lOnGeR aNd HaPpIEr LiFe

Ten Tips for a Longer and Happier Life

Having a long and happy life is one which most people hope to attain. Longevity is related to both both good mental health and physical health habits. Here are a number of ways that a person can be happier both physically and mentally.

Live in the present

“Learn from the past, live in the present, and prepare for the future.” might become one's mantra. It is impossible to change the past. What is done is done. No one can predict the future, what will be will be. A person can however learn to live in the reality which is the present.

Use the serenity prayer

The prayer has a number of formats but one states that a person needs to understand what they can change and that which is not under their control and be able to differentiate between the two. One can change bad habits, no person can stop a hurricane or a flood. This may be an extreme case, but the importance is to distinguish being what is empowered to change versus what is out of one’s control.

Develop a hobby

It really is not that important what the hobby is and the suggestion here is not to use the hobby to dodge everyday needs, but developing an expert skill in anything can be very fulfilling.

Care for nature

A pet is a great way to both give an get love. Certain life forms such as a goldfish may not be as affectionate as a cat or dog but they represent an element of the universe that is dependent. Even houseplants, for people who cannot keep animals as pets, have needs such as water and nutrients and in exchange give something back, beauty.

Volunteer for a good cause

Volunteering is a great way to get involved in a cause and a way to meet other people with similar interests or goals.

Hope for the best

Pessimism is a great way to shorten one's life span. This does not mean that one should turn into a Polly Anna proclaiming to oneself, if not the world that everything is grand. A positive attitude when facing difficulties can be self-fulfilling.

Lower expectations in oneself and others

The world is full of disappointment. People can become discouraged in themselves by not realizing their own expectations. A reassessment of dreams and goals can be a great way to distinguish between what is realizable and possible and what is not.

This is not meant to discourage but a way of looking at expectations realistically. Where the “pie in the sky” was the goal perhaps “a piece of the pie” is good enough. In other words, one can set intermediate goals which are achievable.

People who do not demand too much from other people have friends and friendship is important to living a longer and happier life.

Be self-caring

Self-caring should be distinguished from selfish. A person can't accomplish much for anyone if he or she does not take care of himself or herself first.

Set goals and ambitions

This tip is almost synonymous with the tip on lowering expectations but differs in an important way. The person with too lofty an ambition is probably doomed to failure. The person without any goals or ambitions is a failure already. Anyone starting out with “I wanted to, but …” rather than “I expect to, but …” hasn't thought through the possibilities. Small steps in goal setting often yield big results.

Perseverance wins in the end

When a goal is realistic a first, second, or even third approach may not work. Giving up was not the attitude of inventors such as Thomas Edison. One might need to think through a problem in another way. Another thought one might want to keep in mind is that the end result might not only be different it may be better.

hOw To Be A gOoD pErSoN

How To Be A Good Person

Tips On How To Be The Best One Can Be

Think Like A Good Person

Part of the battle is changing one's mindset to reflect the type of person one aims to be rather than the type of person one presently is. Surprisingly, a shift occurs naturally just from trying to change one's outlook without actually having to do anything. The mind controls much more than one thinks and putting the wheels in motion in little ways can help change the larger picture.

Be Aware of What Goes On Outside of Oneself

Part of being a good person warrants paying attention to what happen in the outside world. Think about how others perceive different scenarios and how many different vantage points different people may hold.

Different strokes for different folks and respecting and even embracing differences is an excellent way of creating peace and even learning and expanding one's own mind and world.

Don't Forget To Breathe

It's easy to forget that sometimes breathing is enough to change one's attitude from explosive to calm. Take three deep breaths every time the anger starts to rise. Just a few, deep breaths really can make the difference between a fight and a conversation, between making someone else angry for no reason and calming down.

A good rule of thumb is to consider whether each word or action is better than saying or doing nothing at all and not exercising that unless it passes that test.

Take Action

There are so many different actual things one can do to be a good person in everyday life. Give leftover food to a homeless person rather than throwing it away. Volunteer to mentor a child rather than sit on the couch and watch television. Let that car into your lane rather than cutting it off. Smile at a stranger. Offer a seat on the subway. Ask someone how his/her day was and actually listen. Little things mean a lot and changing small habits will eventually lead to big changes that will help make the world a better place.

aDvAnTaGe Of WaTcHiNg MoViEs OnLiNe

Advantages of Watching Movies Online

If you enjoy watching movies or you just appreciate a well-made movie then it is a certainty that you are interested in a facility that allows you to watch your favorite movies anytime you want. Nowadays, this is a very easy thing to do as there are many of sites that offer such services. You can easily watch movies from your own room without having to spend a small fortune on renting the DVD or going to the cinema. This method allows fans to watch movies shortly after their release by downloading them or watching them streaming.

Speaking of movies, the fans can enjoy not only movies released in the United States but also from other countries at only a few clicks away. Locating movies is a very easy thing to do as the sites that provide the latest links to online movies and online television shows have the facility to locate the movies by categories or countries. Another method of searching for a certain movie is by the movie title, a certain actor or other similar movie characteristics.

If you understand foreign languages you can watch a foreign TV station and enjoy a movie in your native or second language. A brand new technology called satellite television for PC allow computer users to receive and access as many as approximately 3,000 TV stations and over 1,500 radio stations. Sites that offer these kind of services, with other words, sites that provide the latest links to online movies and online TV shows are worth a try as they are not only easy to use but reliable and safe. Basically, some of the main advantages for movie fans are:

• Visitors can download the movies legally and in a safe
way.

• Users have the ability to watch the movies streaming.

• Movie fans can watch their favorite movies in a very high quality imagine.

• Besides movies, users can view television shows, sports, documentaries and others.

• All these shows can be watched onto the computer monitor, television or even a projector.

This is the perfect solution for movie fans that are looking for certain old movies that are almost inaccessible. Young people enjoy watching new movies online nowadays as they have 24h access to the Internet and they spend several hours in front of their personal computers rather than watching the TV. The satellite TV on PC gives the visitor access to stations, some of them aren’t even available on conventional satellite TV. Users can watch dramas, comedies, action movies, anything they want, the offer is rich.

All things considered, it looks like the Internet has another big thing for visitors thanks to these sites that offer links to online movies and online TV shows which are getting more and more popular among Internet user as this method is not only safe but also fast and cheap. Searching for your favorite movie was never as easy as it is now, at only just a few clicks away, without headaches, without having to run down to the DVD store to rent/purchase it. What else movie fans can desire?

LiFe iS SiMpLe ;-)